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How to Stop Smoking
As a former smoker, I have some strong opinions about why we
smoke and what it takes to stop.
We probably all started smoking for social reasons. We imitated
people that we admired or else became associated with a group of
people and took the same habits and dress that the group had.
The reasons that we continue to smoker are very different from
the ones which led us to start.
Among us are two groups of people: smokers and non smokers. Some
of us can smoke for years and then for some reason be motivated
to stop and have no difficulty whatsoever in stopping, as it
were, in mid-cigarette. They are probably basically non smokers.
Some of us became so locked into smoking that stopping becomes a
major life project. There is probably an inherited
metabolic defect which some component of the smoking is
activating, feeding biochemical hunger. Every time we smoke we
both satisfy that biochemical hunger and increase the drive for
the next cigarette. For people who have this metabolic lock on
the cigarette, smoking stops being an issue of pleasure and
certainly is no longer a moral or character logical issue. We
don't smoke because we are too weak to quit, we smoke because
our lock is so strong.
A metabolic addict has a dreadful time in stopping. The strategy
that (I believe) works best is substitution. Without
substitution the metabolic drive will eventually overcome what
willpower is being used. It has been my observation that the
drive to smoke, and probably the associate enzyme pathways, take
about one year to reach a manageable level. During this period,
food is the only substitute powerful enough to block the drive
generated by smoking dependence. Dedicated quitters should give
themselves permission, on behalf of eliminating this powerful
dependence, to gain up to twenty pounds during the course of one
year. The average weight gain is about fourteen pounds. I
recommend purchasing clothing at the start, for temporary use,
which will accommodate the weight gain. No diet or weight
control program should be contemplated for one year. My
experience has been that most people fall back to smoking within
six to nine months, and that is why the period of one year must
be allowed for this project.
The addiction always speaks to us. We usually find ourselves
telling ourselves this is not a good day to stop and make a deal
for a day in the future.
The next rationalization is the acknowledgement that we
should stop; we postpone the project because of some
upcoming "stressful" event. Nicotine is an upper. A dose of
nicotine increases anxiety, and never reduces it. This excuse is
the addiction talking.
Later, we note that we had fewer sore throats, nasal discharge
and less coughing while smoking. This response effect represents
the wearing off of the local anesthetic effect of the smoking.
When we smoke, we kill the pain from the damage we caused when
last we
smoked. This is part of the reason that we keep picking up one
cigarette after another. When we stop smoking, we regain
sensation in our airway and begin to feel the damage, even as it
is healing. Again, it has been the addiction talking.
At about six to eight months, we have the sensation that
we are beginning to be quite independent of smoking. We become
proud of ourselves. We feel that when we see cigarettes we
can either take them or leave them. Of course, we take them, and
within a day or two are back to where we started from. This,
again, was the addiction to nicotine talking to us.
None of this is moral weakness and none of it indicates a
personality defect. This is an ingrained metabolic
affliction. Realizing this should not make one conclude
that one cannot stop smoking because of the strength of
one's metabolic lock. This, too, would be the nicotine
speaking.
A realistic attitude, plus reasonable substitute behavior can
get us through the period of time it takes to allow the hunger
to extinguish.
As physicians, we help with some pharmacological tricks which
help with the first few weeks of intense craving.
Behavioral modification techniques and hypnosis have an
important, but temporary, role in getting us through the initial
period of high metabolic demand for smoking.
Commitment on the part of the smoker is all that is
required in order to stop. It is that simple. Being
simple, I don't mean to say that it is easy. The problem becomes
only one of when to start. There is nothing wrong with right
now. Any argument against right now is the addiction talking.
Remember, confession of addiction doesn’t substitute for
stopping. The best time to stop is right now. The only cigarette
to avoid is....the one you’re about to light.
If you haven’t stopped yet, take reasonable health precautions .
Get an annual chest x-ray and an annual examination of the oral
cavity and voice box. This is a poor substitute for
quitting, but seems to me the most prudent course since
smoking itself will mask danger signals.
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